I am in love with and wildly attracted to a man, and it is the best relationship I will ever have. the only other relationship I would ever want to really explore (and this is true for him too) is a deep same-sex friendship that (more than) occasionally got physical.

emotional intimacy with the same sex that manifests itself in intense physical desire at times is…really really attractive to me. it wouldn’t even matter if she had someone else (in fact, it would probably be for the best) – we’d fill a special role in each other’s life, one that no other partner involved would be threatened by.

mmph.