not sure what triggered the change but boy do I love writing drafts now

What do you identify as? What are your pronouns?

I identify as female, she/her/hers. I most definitely have lady bits and I appreciate my internal femininity; my femaleness surfaces strongly in situations involving power of any sort.

however, I have always felt like half a dude, and my head-representation* of myself is a male cartoon cat (which I’m sure says a lot about a lot). I really like wearing clothes that are not traditionally female and I keep my hair cut short these days, and I’m frequently misidentified as a boy, which I have absolutely no problem with. so I definitely don’t do anything to dispel the half-and-half image (or reality).

really, on a linear scale from -50 (fully female) to 50 (fully male), I’d say I fall at about a -10.

I’m strongly bisexual and somewhat (*cringe*) polyamorous. I hate that word, but it’s as close as I’ve got. bottom line: I am irrevocably in love with my husband, but lord knows neither of us is cut out to only love one person, and we rather enjoy getting to know others both together and separately.

hopefully that answers your question! (and then some)

*head-representation being the entity I see in “my place” when I imagine myself in life, which I always see much like a third-person shooter. I’ve heard other people see life in first-person perspective and I am fascinated by this.

depressionista:

                                distraptor
velociraptor =     ———————-

                               timeraptor

changing my name everywhere now. the official thing will happen when I can snag the cash, but…it’s a quiet passing of an era, y’know?

I’m so excited to be a Niehaus though. gahhhhhh.

and now I can go by Kat and not sound like I’m a tiny comedian.