It’s not that you can’t be proud of it — you absolutely can. You did bust ass and do good work to get that job. It’s about sympathy/empathy. Knowing that my neighbors in a bottom-10th percentile school are much, much less likely to achieve that success (and hopefully you’ll want that disadvantage lessened?). As for your gender not being as big a problem: I think part of that comes from location, maybe? I imagine more liberal states = better places for ladies to work? (Just a guess…)

empathy I can do, and my empathy often leads to a very specific outreach (i.e. donating money to a transgendered individual who got kicked out of their home). part of my drive to get rich is to make a better world through research on technologies and opportunities that would lessen the imbalances of education and able-bodiedness.  I would LOVE to get in on researching tech for safer/healthier food production, new methods of delivering education to people who don’t learn well with current methods, affordable robotic technology to assist around the house, at school, at work.  sympathy I try not to indulge in too much.  I think it’s a pretty selfish feeling (it’s the karma-o-matic of the day for privileged people, imho).  people in a lesser position of privilege than myself have told me sympathy feels like pity and that’s not what they want.  (correct me if I’m wrong?) but you’re right; it is about being as aware, thoughtful, and in-tune a person as possible no matter where you might fall.

could very well be Seattle, that’s true. and probably the fact that my brain chemistry is terrifyingly balanced and I really can act the male as much as the female, so the things that bother many women about a workplace make me feel at home. and my position on all things sexual leaves me open to harassment. I’m betting that what would truly make me feel harassed is a lot further up the “yikes" scale than lots of people.

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