I downloaded some free Kindle books, and one of them had this stat on how much money the average American spends towards debts, and I was like…..huh. so ran the numbers, had a revelation, made a plan, explained it to Jake, and we feel in control of finances. is good.
I handed Jake a bowl of the butter chicken + turmeric rice I’d just made and watched with apprehension as he tasted it. then he reached over for a fist bump and said “this is delicious. well done. you have earned your knife” and rarely. rarely have I been so full of satisfaction
buhhhhhh headsick
But for real. Every year my mom’s family does something called sibling weekend where her and all nine of her brothers and sisters get a cabin and drink and play card games and hang out.
I think the Joni’s should do that. Once a year.
I’m in, but I have a suggestion: every year we go somewhere new where none of us live. It’s fair to everyone and it allows us to travel and discover new places, together.















