I just can’t remember the last time I had or saw a public discussion of these things without the privileged person saying something wrong. not always intentionally. but then the discussion spirals and the questions don’t get answered and progress isn’t made

I just want progress please

I just want to understand. and to do what I can to subvert. but I have genuine puzzlement over what other females have experienced (just to name a broad group as an example) vs. myself and I would like to understand what those factors might be