Anna reminded me with a post of hers today that it’s good to be young.
it is! don’t adults spend their whole lives chasing after this life stage again? it’s a time to explore things and yourself without restrictions, except those you put on yourself (this is, of course, excluding the discussion of privilege and class and race and sexual orientation, but this is not the place for those; I just wanted to acknowledge them).
also, though, you don’t have to be an irresponsible childish adult. I interact with plenty of those on a daily basis and I can tell you, the world doesn’t need any more of them.
childlike is allowed.
childlike is encouraged.
playful, yes. self-possessed, yes! very much so! know what you want and how you feel, and set out to pursue your personal happinesses. even if those are things as “adult” as marriage, or the dreaded “career.”
don’t trample on others in order to get there. think about the kindest little children you know and how they actually enjoy sharing and the exchange of creative ideas that facilitates. be like that. share things. share your feelings and your talents and your heart (keep it open, even though that’s terrifying – and trust me, I don’t say this without experience in getting my heart stomped on). be open to change in your beliefs and your practices. be open – but not exclusively devoted to – the opinions of your friends and family.
be young! it’s good! it is. be childlike.
be in the moment.