{"id":9346,"date":"2014-08-18T19:25:00","date_gmt":"2014-08-18T19:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/2014\/08\/18\/moreits-important-to-note-that-in-the\/"},"modified":"2014-08-18T19:25:00","modified_gmt":"2014-08-18T19:25:00","slug":"moreits-important-to-note-that-in-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/2014\/08\/18\/moreits-important-to-note-that-in-the\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- more -->it&rsquo;s important to note that in the pantheon of things Jake does for me, the ones I post are such a tiny, tiny percentage &#8211; even if I was posting several times a day, the number of moments that make me pause and think, <em>oh, wow, someone who does that for me\/says that to me\/makes that reference in that moment is rarer than rare, rare enough as to be a myth, a myth of flesh and blood under my hands<\/em> &#8211; that number\u00a0is woefully unrepresented by how much of my life I share online. we&rsquo;re two people who could survive without a dedicated other, yet we&rsquo;ve molded each other towards our collective center of good traits, far beyond recognition now. who would we be without our other half? &ldquo;other half&rdquo; is an inadequate term. half implies a certain type of completeness in what remains, an equality at least. what&rsquo;s left of me after you remove the influence of my soulmate is like the salt and flavoring at the bottom of a bag of chips. it&rsquo;s the right flavor profile, but without\u00a0the substance of context, it&rsquo;s overwhelming and off-putting. without Jake, I would have existed, of course, probably even been happy &#8211; but I&rsquo;m so glad this is how we&rsquo;ve gone. &lt;3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it&rsquo;s important to note that in the pantheon of things Jake does for me, the ones I post are such a tiny, tiny percentage &#8211; even if I was posting several times a day, the number of moments that make me pause and think, oh, wow, someone who does that for me\/says that to me\/makes &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/2014\/08\/18\/moreits-important-to-note-that-in-the\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1077,1025,1899,939],"class_list":["post-9346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-meandyou","tag-personal","tag-sap","tag-writerlife"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9346","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9346"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9346\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.augustwritesabook.com\/tumblr-backup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}